How to give an erotic massage

An erotic massage is a gorgeous sensual experience. Ensure you are not going to be interrupted. Take your phone off the hook and lock the doors. Make sure you have plenty of time it's not something you want to rush. Set the mood dim the light or drape some cloth over the lamp (make sure its not going to catch on fire!) maybe light some candles. Set up where you are going to give the massage make sure the room temperature is warm and your hands too. Soothing music is great. Getting your lover to take a shower or bath before hand will help relax them. For an extra romantic touch try some scented candles and rose petals!

Remember you are trying to make your lover relax and enjoy the massage so you must be relaxed too. If you are nervous or tense your lover will pick this up from your body language.

Before you start rub massage oil or cream in your hands this will get it warmed up before you put it on your lover.

To begin with start off slowly and see how your lover responds. Adapting your technique as you need to get the best response from them. I admit giving a great massage is not the easiest thing to do but it's difficult to give a bad one as long as you keep listening to your partner's responses.

The whole point of an erotic massage is being touched! Keep the pressure constant and the motion fluid this will help you build the intimacy level. Don't be afraid to communicate with your lover this is especially true if you are just beginning to learn how to give an erotic massage or if you are with a new lover. Don't go overboard things you may like to ask are if they would like it softer or harder slower or faster etc. A good tip here is to listen to your lovers breathing; it's a great indicator that you are doing it well.

Keep movements rhythmic and symmetrical to begin with as this will allow your lover to sense what you are doing and allow them to relax. Once you are more experienced and your lover is relaxed you will be able to provide a more erotic massage but the basics are the best place to start until your skill improves.

Don't worry too much about where to start but it's better not to start anywhere too intimate. You could start at the head and work your way down or it's just as good to start at the feet and work up. Also don't be afraind to go over the same spot twice or more. Remember there is no right or wrong way here so do what you and your lover feel comfortable with. Learning is half the fun after all.

If you are stuck for ideas a good routine to follow would be to begin at the shoulders go down both arms and back up then down the back to the buttocks continue down the legs to the feet. You could have them turn over at this stage and work back up. Now not all the areas we have just covered will like the same level of massage so remember to communicate and listen to your lovers breathing. The more you do it the better you will get at it.

Now remember this is an erotic massage you are performing here so don't just limit yourself to using your hands. Try your tongue and lips on sensitive parts your chest or breasts on larger parts. Some people enjoy a little scratching even. Start our lightly first to make sure your lover enjoys this. You may even want to use your vibrator; I recommend a high quality vibrator one that is fairly quiet and has a good speed range.

That's plenty to get you started. I hope you enjoy yourself and to make it an erotic massage your lover will always remember try using the KamaSutra love products.