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This really is the million dollar question I get asked all the time... How can I find my G-spot?
Well first some of my friends say they can stimulate their g-spot using their fingers and othesr say they need a sex toy. While others say they have looked and looked but sadly never can find. So I believe it's a personal thing both in body and in mind you have to be open to finding this magical spot and like having it stimulated. I personally love playing with mine after I have been aroused but not before hand.
When searching for your G-Spot don't be put off if you don't find it on the first go it can take time. I find it easier after I am aroused because before that I'm less comfortable being played with.
Tips and Tricks to find your G-spot:
First off - avoid pressure to find it.
This is the last thing you want to try when searching for the G-Spot. Often people become fixated on finding and stimulating the G-Spot.They want multiple orgasmsG-Spot orgasms and more. Fixating on this will not help you find it in fact the opposite is more likely.
OK here we go
Get turned on.
For starters this feels good. Also the G-Spot and surrounding area becomes engorged with blood so the area both enlarges and becomes more sensitive making it easier to find.
Make sure you are comfortable.
I find squatting or on my stomach the best but if you are more comfortable on your back use that method.
Insert your finger
With the palm of your hand lying on your vulva slowly insert a finger inside your vagina (using lube if need to) make a come here motion with your finger. At about the second knuckle depth you should feel a slightly bumpy (or ridged) area on the upper wall.
You are there.
This is the spot. You will notice the texture change of the g-spot likely to be different from the rest of smooth wall it will be more rigid or wavy. When aroused it normally expands so will feel different at different stages of arousal. Typically the G-spot will respond to pressure so press down and use that come here signal with your finger.
Try out some toys on the spot.
You may find it more pleasurable using a sex toys that is designed for G-Spot stimulation. Because they are designed mainly for the purpose it can be a lot easier to get good results. Make sure you use some lubrication to avoid any unwanted friction. Go slow to start with and remember to point the cured tip towards your belly. Work it in slowly until the tip get to your G-Spot then start to apply pressure.
Experiment with the G-Spot.
Remember we are all different so you will need to experiment with the G-Spot to find out what sort of stimulation works best for you. Some woman find hard thrusting works well whereas others prefer more delicate stimulation. In general I think pressure is the key stimulation so you may want to start with that. Short firm strokes are another great one for me.
Variety.
I think we all like variety. A circular or back-and-forth motion could be good but you might soon want to move on to a more vigorous movement. If you are using a vibrator try different settings to see what happens.
Double trouble.
Try stimulating your Clitoris at the same time. This sends me over the top and may be just the thing to help you understand your G-Spot a little better. When you feel the urge to come while stimulate your clitoris try stimulating your G-Spot.
If you feel like peeing.
A lot of my friends have told me they feel like peeing when stimulating their G-Spot. I think this is probably why a lot of women give up on the G-spot but trust me here you are not going to pee you may even squirt which again trust me is not pee. If you do feel like peeing stick at it you are about to have a pleasant surprise. If you do ejaculate great if you don't that's ok too. Female ejaculation is perfectly normal.
Don't give up.
You may not find your G-Spot first go in may take many attempts. Try varying your position and different sex toys. you can ask your lover to help I'm sure they will be keen! Often after you have an orgasm can be the best time to start exploring.
Show me some G spot sex toys.
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