Blow Job Basics

If you are new at giving blowjobs or have never tried before let me tell you it can be a wonderful sexual experience. However without the know-how many of my friends have told me their early attempts were disastrous. In this quick guide I will give you the basic know-how and some guidelines to get you off to a good start. Remember that different people like different things so make sure you communicate well with your partner both during and after the blowjob.

Now for the blowjob beginner's guide.

First off a few guidelines you should keep in mind when you are performing a blowjob. Also make sure to use some variety to produce your own technique he will love you for it!

1. You must really like sucking the penis if you don't and you still are performing a blow job at least act like you absolutely love it. This of course is much easier if you really do. If he knows you love doing it he will love it more and this will help him relax.

2. Make a vacuum in your month. Do not let any air in!

3. Strum the base of the head on the underside in a horizontal movement with your tongue to make it hard if it is already hard then do this to tease it.

4. Using the top of your tongue press the head up against the roof of your mouth. This causes friction.

5. Now watch out for your teeth. Use just your lips and tongue. Fairly obvious I know but it has to be said.

So that's the basic guidelines out of the way now a bit more general advice for beginner cock sucking.

If you want to deep-throat the penis you will need to control the gag reflex. When you feel like gagging you need to swallow. Now I will be honest I am not that into deep-throating and do not think it is important to give a great blowjob anyway. If your partner really likes the feeling of completely being enclosed you can do that with your hands. The real great sexual experience and advantage with a blowjob is the control and variety you can achieve which you can only achieve with shallow penetration.

Breath deeply through your nose while performing a blowjob and vary your stroking up and down pace. Remember he will most like cum once you start to get faster and keep up the pace.

I find it's best if I am a bit hungry but not thirsty at all. I think for some reason thirst closes up the back of your throat.

Well that should get you off to a good start Lucy.

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